I also agree with your viewpoint that, in the end, this should be implemented correctly, no excuses (especially from a networkvendor). My first reply was tailored more on just getting things working because these days I'm often happy enough when stuff just works even if, in the back of my mind, I know that there might still be some issues that need resolving.
Maybe, if you already have the necessary steps to reproduce this, it might be a good idea to open a supportcase with Avaya so they can fix this.