Agree with Flintstones. You will be unable to get the level of redundancy that SMLT (or MLAG) would provide with the Cisco 2811.
The best option outside of STP/RSTP/MSTP would be to using Ether-channel (802.3ad) from Cisco 2811 to Cisco 3560 and make the VMWare Host do an active-standby connection into each 3560. This design has one flaw, if the Cisco 2811 that is connected to the 3560 on the Active Link Path fails, not sure how the VMWare Host will know to fail the link, I guess you would need some type of remote fault indication or some type of heartbeat with the VRRP Interface to inform the VMWare Host that its L2 Path is down.
Would also think that Active-Active Links from your VMWare Host would cause the same MAC to be located on two different ports from the perspective of the Cisco 23811, if that is true not sure if that is good network design.
The only way to get Active-Active MLAG (something similar to Avaya's SMLT) from Cisco would be upgrading to Cat6500 (VSS) or Nexus 7K (vPC).